taboo
A look at words, acts, and fetishes that are often unjustly considered taboo.
Ask Wendy: About BDS&M
I am intrigued by BDS&M upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hardcore, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7. For those not yet exposed to the mental aspect of this fetish, www.fetlife.com is an amazing resource to learn more about it.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Why (and Where) to Have Sex in Public
Several months ago, I was walking on 42nd Street in New York City with Ron. Ron is a lawyer–as a hobby, I'd argue, because his real occupation is sex. Ron is a highly accomplished voyeur, and knows more about sex than anyone I know. As we were approaching the corner of Seventh Ave., Ron put his hand on my arm and said in a low voice so as not to draw any attention, "Look in that car parked there by the curb. There are two people fucking in the car."
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy - Masturbation
Have you ever wondered if there were differences in masturbation patterns between men and women? If you thought that men masturbate more frequently than women you guessed right. Did you also wonder if men are more open to the possibility of casual sex? If you thought YES then that is also a correct assumption.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Wacky Sex Toy of the Week: 'The Zeus Voice Controlled E-Stim Chastity System'
Have you been yearning for the sight of yet another strange and possibly alarming sex toy? Well, wait no longer, dear readers. Wacky Sex Toy of the Week has returned yet again, and, let me tell you, we’ve got a shocker for you. Or, more accurately, for ‘little you’. And yes, that shock is absolutely literal. Ready? Put on your thick-soled rubber boots, stay away from tall trees, and get ready to check out . . . . . . the Zeus Voice Controlled E-Stim Chastity System. (Pro tip: ‘e-stim’ is short for ‘electric stimulation’, which is just what it sounds like). You’ve heard of those shock collars for dogs? Yeah, this is basically a shock collar for your junk. I’m just going to take a moment to let that sink in. Shock collar for your junk. Yep. But wait . . . there’s more. Not only is this a shock collar for your junk, it’s also a chastity device. Your partner in junk-shocking locks your pork’n’beans inside the plastic confines of the Zeus, thus preventing any, uh, amorous activity, and also pressing the edges of your soon-to-be-maltreated-member against the sides of the unforgiving device. This wouldn’t be so bad, except for the fact that the sides and tip of the Zeus are covered in zappy electrodes. I’ll let the website’s text take this one away. “The chastity cage is lined with electro conductive silicone with pads running along the sides. Each electrode flares out into a paddle shape to optimise contact with the head of the penis.”
By Anne St. Marie9 years ago in Filthy
7 Tips Introducing you to the Exxxtreme Relationship
7 Tips introducing you to the Exxxtreme relationship After being with your partner for an extended period of time you might need to "spice things up" Here are some tips as to how to bring your relationship to new heights of sensuality and pleasure.
By Summer Dream9 years ago in Filthy
Dom (Top) Archetypes
In my time within the BDSM community, I have come across so many types of Doms. Yes, this is the male identifying version of a Dom. There are good ones and bad ones. You will find you can be one of these types or many mixed together. The key to being a good Dom is to know the basics, know yourself and your own limits.
By L.S. Diamond9 years ago in Filthy
The Triangle Of Submission: What You Need To Know About Triangle Piercings
So I decided to finally get over it and go get what is my last genital piercing. I wanted to write about it because maybe I can offer some insight to others like myself that found little information or experiences to read about. I am going to talk about a lot of things regarding a triangle piercing because I think that what info out there is largely graphic and scary stories that could easily give someone a skewed view of the piercing. Let’s start from the beginning.
By Alexa Lovely9 years ago in Filthy
The 9 Common BDSM Sub Types
When you think BDSM you think Dom/me type and subtypes, but how many are there really. The most common being sub and slave but there are some more common types that people relate to more then those too. I truly believe in educating myself and others to explore sexuality and BDSM is included in that.
By L.S. Diamond9 years ago in Filthy
Fringe Fetishes: Puppy Play
Puppy Play is much more common in BDSM then one may think. Yet most people I encounter still respond with, “really?” and genuine surprise that a grown, kinky person would be into this type of play. It is because of this response that I have decided to start off my Fringe Fetish Series with Puppy Play.
By L.S. Diamond9 years ago in Filthy
