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Save Your Money With These Creative 50 Cheap Date Ideas
Whether it’s your anniversary, sweetheart’s birthday, or just a plain old Tuesday – these 50 cheap date ideas will keep your romance alive (but on a budget).
By Sheera Lee9 years ago in Filthy
What Makes a Man Want To Commit?
What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction.
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
Welcome to the Friend Zone
Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone.
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
How To Tell Him You Want To Commit
You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!)
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute
You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes:
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
How To Get More Guys To Approach You
I know the movies told you that ‘One day your Prince will come!’ So when you’re sitting alone at a bar, no one is coming up to speak to you and you're getting no matches on Tinder, this can all feel mortally disappointing.
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
Perfect Text To Send Your Ex
Girl … if you’re asking this question we need to get you back on the right track. I understand how hard break ups can be, particularly that painful first six to eight weeks when your life has been turned upside down and you’re dealing with the grief over someone who has disappeared from your life. It can be natural to try and fill the space he left by stalking him via social media hatching plans to get him back.
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
How Do You Know If She Likes You?
This is another one of those ‘if you’re asking the question you’re already losing’ questions. I don’t want you to spend another day stuck in your head, thinking about whether she likes you rather than asking her out in real life.
By Hayley Quinn9 years ago in Filthy
Write For Filthy Today
Filthy has now joined the Vocal platform, letting people from all over the world contribute their thoughts, recommendations, advice, and stories to the edgy community.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
How to Be Better in Bed - A Porn Star's Advice
Kind of a click baity title because I know that everyone, no matter how awesome you think you are at sex, wants to be better. Just double check there isn’t anything they missed off the old check list. I’ve had a lot of sex. It is fair to say I have had more sex and more sexual partners, both male and female, then most humans have in their life time. Yes, I do porn and a lot of those sexual partners were purely for on screen satisfaction, but shooting porn has taught me more about sex than any sex ed class or one night stand ever could.
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
History of Sperm Banks
A Midwestern grandfather makes a deposit at the sperm bank to assure the continuance of his family name should his son prove sterile. In the East, a 69-year-old bachelor millionaire stores semen so that should his fertility decline as he ages, he will still be able to marry and produce an heir with a presumably younger woman. And a young man is to be castrated for cancer of the testes. His surgeon advises him to store his sperm.
By Frank White9 years ago in Filthy
How to Start a Love Affair
One of the most exciting things about being single is that you never know when fate is going to set an enticing man within eye contact. He's checking out your assets at the supermarket while reaching for a box of Cheerios, or he's squinting at you from the other end of the bar, or locking glances when he's getting out of his green Volvo just as you're getting into your blue Volkswagen. You feel a certain something–a tingle at the nape of your neck–a signal. Yet you do nothing. You walk on. The opportunity is lost. After a moment's small sadness, most such incidents are forgotten–but a few haunt you forever.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy